Guy emails me over OKCupid yesterday, and what?! Blue eyes, works out, loves NPR and chocolate chip cookies, a scientist/executive who makes some serious money.
He did commit my pet peeve in his profile which was to say he was funny, but then… he was actually funny, so he got a pass.
In his email, he quoted and responded to specific parts of my profile. And included this line: “You look beautiful and you sound perfect. You should be told this every day.”
(swoon)
Aaaaand he’s married.
Yep.
At least he was up-front about it.
WTF??????
Wait. There are married dudes on dating sites, who aren’t afraid to tell you they’re married, meaning some girls (girls not women) are okay with this???? WHAT IN THE WORLD!
Roman Empire dating service.
I do not understand…. Is he getting a divorce, is he a swinger, or is he just a douche bag?
Douche bag.
sounds like a winner.
WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT??????????????????????????
ew.
you are beautiful and perfect, though.
i’m telling you, this okcupid site is like a circus sometimes.
my pet peeve is the guys who are “just getting back into the dating scene” and are “recently separated” or “newly single”. yeah, i can just imagine what we’re going to talk about on a date. no, thank you. eeeeeeeeeeeeeek.
melissa is right. you are beautiful and perfect, m’lady.
Beautifully and perfectly flawed, just like most people, I reckon.
amy a, you need to guest-blog for me sometime. I’m sure you have stories!
So…North Carolina says you must be separated for 12 months before you are can file for divorce. That’s a long time. Could our blue eyed friend maybe be in process? Maybe? No???
Nope, Kate. This guy was definitely not interested in getting divorced. (He even said on his profile that he loved his wife…?) He was looking specifically for a side relationship.