{"id":6073,"date":"2012-12-31T17:47:28","date_gmt":"2012-12-31T22:47:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/?p=6073"},"modified":"2012-12-31T17:47:28","modified_gmt":"2012-12-31T22:47:28","slug":"reasons-why-2012-was-great-even-though-i-hated-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/2012\/12\/31\/reasons-why-2012-was-great-even-though-i-hated-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Reasons Why 2012 Was Great, Even Though I Hated It"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My friend\/coach <a href=\"http:\/\/ashleythompsondenton.tumblr.com\/\">ATD<\/a> recently wrote a blog post called\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/ashleythompsondenton.tumblr.com\/post\/38866538616\/10-reasons-why-2012-was-great\">10 Reasons Why 2012 Was Great<\/a>. When I saw the title but before I read the post, I was like, &#8220;OH HELL NO 2012 SUCKED AND I&#8217;M SO GLAD IT&#8217;S ALMOST OVER PHFTHTHPT.&#8221; But I thought about my tendency toward the negative and my attempts to <a href=\"http:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/2011\/12\/18\/57-things-or-rules-to-stop-or-start-doing-in-the-new-year-for-your-life-to-be-better-and-to-make-you-more-happier\/\">cultivate gratitude<\/a>,\u00a0and I figured I&#8217;d give it a try. I didn&#8217;t think I could come up with 10 things, but maybe five, you know? I jotted down 11 in a matter of minutes.<\/p>\n<p>1. Working with people that I like. If you let me, I&#8217;ll bitch all day about my job, but truth is, I&#8217;ve never had a better teaching situation, so I&#8217;m gonna try to STFU with the complaints.<\/p>\n<p>2. Time with the Scott clan.\u00a0Particularly my nieces and nephews.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6083\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6083\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/2012\/12\/31\/reasons-why-2012-was-great-even-though-i-hated-it\/img_3401_2-2\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-6083\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-6083 \" alt=\"They are hilarious.\" src=\"http:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_3401_21.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"600\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6083\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">They are hilarious.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>(The eldest\/scribe was concerned that Santa might get his fingers snapped in one of various rodent traps that were&#8230; necessary at my dad&#8217;s house this year. The cheese in the fridge was fair game, but Mr. Claus seemed to be OK with the pretzel treats and whatnot.)<\/p>\n<p>3. Tubing down the Dan River with my friends. I don&#8217;t have any photos because nobody has a waterproof camera. That&#8217;s probably a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>4. Doing the <a href=\"http:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/2012\/10\/28\/one-tough-mudder-part-1\/\">Tough Mudder<\/a>. So great. Also, <em>really, really terrible<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>5.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/themonti.org\/\">The Monti<\/a>. Hosting, putting my name in the hat, just sitting and listening. I enjoyed it all, and I learned so much each time.<\/p>\n<p>6. Fostering <a href=\"http:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/2012\/02\/04\/the-foster-chronicles-buffy-week-1\/\">Buffy<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/2012\/03\/25\/the-foster-chronicles-tulip-week-1\/\">Tulip<\/a>. Buffy&#8217;s mommies fostered a male dog after they adopted Buffy and ended up adopting\u00a0<em>him<\/em>. Talk about paying it forward! And Tulip&#8217;s mommy is&#8212;well, I&#8217;ll put it this way: I can&#8217;t imagine a better situation for her. (Go to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/TulipTheAdoptABullDog\">Tulip&#8217;s Facebook page<\/a>, and scroll down to her status update for December 7. Tulip&#8217;s mommy and I wrote it together.)<\/p>\n<p>7. Wire-Watching Zombie Squad. Four friends and I get together most Sundays and throw ourselves into a big pile on the couch and watch an unhealthy number of episodes of <em>The Wire<\/em>. And I love it. I just fucking love it.<\/p>\n<p>8. Seeing <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=344OpaQCAQI\">Reggie Watts<\/a> live with my buddy Kyle.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6075\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6075\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/2012\/12\/31\/reasons-why-2012-was-great-even-though-i-hated-it\/img_2768\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-6075\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-6075 \" alt=\"Do it if you get the chance.\" src=\"http:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_2768.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"600\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6075\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Do it if you get the chance. It&#8217;s an experience like no other.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>9. When Margo came to visit. I love Margo.<\/p>\n<p>10. Being a <a href=\"http:\/\/crossfitdurham.com\/\">CrossFit Durham<\/a> athlete. I&#8217;m not &#8220;in shape&#8221; by any standard, but I&#8217;m definitely in the best shape of my life, and I&#8217;ve made <em>so many<\/em> new friends there.<\/p>\n<p>Also the fact that Dave lets us go rogue and do ridiculous things. Exhibit A: the enTire Mile, an event conceived of by Shiv, during which six of us, taking turns in pairs, flipped a tractor tire an entire mile. Just for the hell of it.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6076\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6076\" style=\"width: 451px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/2012\/12\/31\/reasons-why-2012-was-great-even-though-i-hated-it\/entire-mile\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-6076\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6076\" alt=\"Six of us flipped a tractor tire an entire mile.\" src=\"http:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/enTIRE-mile.jpeg\" width=\"451\" height=\"604\" srcset=\"https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/enTIRE-mile.jpeg 451w, https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/enTIRE-mile-224x300.jpeg 224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 451px) 100vw, 451px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6076\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">That&#8217;s me on the left and Shiv on the right.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>11.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/2012\/11\/11\/pura-vida\/\">Costa Motherfucking Rica<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Being me, I also wrote down things that sucked about 2012, and I was startled how few I could come up with:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>having a career that&#8217;s not my calling;<\/li>\n<li>being thwarted at our <a href=\"http:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/2012\/09\/10\/shit-show\/\">first attempt at the Tough Mudder<\/a>;<\/li>\n<li>suffering from <a href=\"http:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/2012\/11\/13\/liar\/\">depression<\/a>;<\/li>\n<li>taking two big risks that didn&#8217;t end the way I wanted them to; and\u00a0as a result,<\/li>\n<li>still being single.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And, with the exception of the Mudder (which we got to do later), those are Big Things. I&#8217;m not going to say they&#8217;re not, or that they didn&#8217;t suck real, real, <em>real<\/em> bad. But you know what? There are a lot worse problems than not having your career dreams fulfilled, and my depression is probably a lifetime affliction that I&#8217;ll just have to manage, and I learned a lot about myself in the face of failure\/rejection.<\/p>\n<p>Moreover, I&#8217;m not really single right now, am I? It seems I have a Dutch boyfriend.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My friend\/coach ATD recently wrote a blog post called\u00a010 Reasons Why 2012 Was Great. When I saw the title but before I read the post, I was like, &#8220;OH HELL NO 2012 SUCKED AND I&#8217;M SO GLAD IT&#8217;S ALMOST OVER PHFTHTHPT.&#8221; But I thought about my tendency toward the negative and my attempts to cultivate &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/2012\/12\/31\/reasons-why-2012-was-great-even-though-i-hated-it\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Reasons Why 2012 Was Great, Even Though I Hated It<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6074,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,5,8,20,7,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6073","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-animules","category-dating","category-fambly","category-first-world-problems","category-teaching","category-liftin-heavy-objects-over-ma-head"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6073","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6073"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6073\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6085,"href":"https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6073\/revisions\/6085"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6074"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6073"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6073"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/avidbruxist.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6073"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}